Why Medical Patient Modesty Is Important
The medical community often expects patients
to dismiss their modesty issues within the medical setting and
there are patients that want to see a change in that attitude.
Many men and women have no desire for certain parts of their
body to be exposed to any person of the opposite sex aside from
their respective spouses. Locker rooms and public restrooms
are separate for a reason and outrage would prevail if that
were to change so what is so odd about modesty in the medical
community? Modesty is important in all circumstances.
Think about how many husbands would be upset
if another man watched their wife taking a bath or using the
toilet. Or wives having another woman watch their husband using
a urinal. Many husbands feel strongly that their wives' private
areas should not be exposed to any other men and that includes
doctors and nurses. This does not make them crazy, they simply
love their wives so much that they don't want another man to
see or touch these areas. They support their wives' decision
to receive treatments from female doctors, midwives, and nurses
for intimate procedures. The intimacy bond between a husband
and a wife is very special and many believe that this area of
the marital relationship is violated and compromised when they
expose their private parts to a person of the opposite sex,
even medical professionals. Many spouses feel honored to be
the only person of the opposite sex to see and access the private
parts of their spouses.
In addition, there are single people who are
committed to purity and do not want their private areas to be
exposed to the opposite sex even in medical settings. Their
desire is for their future spouse to be the only person of the
opposite sex to see and access certain parts of their body,
especially after puberty. Medical professionals are no different
than ordinary people. Medical training cannot take "man"
out of a male doctor.
There are sexual abuse victims who get very upset about how
their modesty is disregarded in medical setting because it brings
back painful memories. It is very important to them that they
get as much modesty as possible. Many female abuse victims prefer
only female medical professionals participate in intimate medical
procedures on them.
There are male patients upset about female nurses inserting
their catheters. Some male patients were not even aware that
this happened until they woke up from a surgical procedure.
Take a moment to look at some bodily
privacy violation cases. There are cases where female nurses
demand to give male patients a bath when the patient did not
want this to happen but felt unable to stand up for their rights.
Surgeries on the wrist, knee, or arm should
not require the removal of a patient’s underwear. Some
physicians do not like to work around clothes but this makes
little sense. One man before his carpal tunnel surgery informed
the nurses/doctor that he didn't want his pants off. They ignored
his wishes to their horror a nurse brought his pants to his
wife.
There are cases where patients have been successful
in standing up for the modesty they wanted. See successful
cases.
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